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11/12/2024 0 Comments

Follow the Leader

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Not long ago, our son was driving on a lonely highway at night in the middle of a snowstorm. Eyes firmly on the wheel and eyes straining to see, he carefully followed the car in front of him.

​He was approaching his turn when suddenly the lead car did a nose dive into the ditch and the car behind followed suit. Both cars facedown, he quickly readjusted his driving from relying on the cars in front of him to taking a different way.

​Driving in a snowstorm when you cannot see always feels safer if you are following another car. The only problem is, there is always a car at the front of the line with a driver who cannot see any more clearly than anyone else. Trusting the eyes of the driver at the front of the line caused the demise of the second driver. In a snowstorm, you do not want to follow the wrong person. We do this in life all of the time.
Jeremiah 17:5 says, “This is what the LORD says: ‘Cursed is the one who trusts in man.’” The nation of Israel continually put their trust in their own selves and what those around them were saying. They knew God’s laws yet adjusted them to fit their own lifestyles and their own understanding. They put more trust in their own wisdom than what God said was best for them. Their disobedience revealed where their trust truly rested.

Ultimately, they trusted in the wisdom of man over the wisdom of God and following man over God led to their demise. Their demise alerted them to the fact they were following the wrong leader. God always reveals to heal and His purposes are always restorative. Their difficulties were meant to refocus their attention back on God so they could readjust their trust. A life of trusting God is how we were created to live. The fruit of trust is always obedience. We will obey or live our lives according to where our trust lies. 
We follow who we trust; who we obey reveals who we trust.

We may be tempted to wonder how the Israelites could be so unwise, but we easily fall into this way of living all the time. We often formulate our ideas about life based on what the culture around us is saying, what we read on the internet, what our family says, what our ‘group’ says and our own ideas. Trusting in man will always lead to heartache and a life that is easily thrown off track by whatever idea is prominent at the time, our circles and our own ideas.

Instead, God has invited us to live a life of growing trust in Him. Trust is learned over time and through a daily life of interaction with Him. We do this by making space for Him and allowing Him to change our ideas about how life works. Humility with God opens the door for trust in God to be built in our lives. Readjusting trust takes time and intention.

​Sometimes we have driven into the ditch and experienced broken relationships, failures, disappointments and hard life circumstances. Not all of these are the result of our own driving, but sometimes they are. Developing the habit of looking at the hard spaces in our lives and asking God for wisdom, gives an opportunity for us to readjust our trust in that area from man and our own ways to God’s.

​Much of our heartache comes from placing our trust in the wrong thing. God is more than willing and more than able to help us more fully trust in Him.
““This is what the LORD says: ‘Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the LORD. That person will be like a bush in the wastelands; they will not see prosperity when it comes. They will dwell in the parched places of the desert, in a salt land where no one lives. But blessed is the one who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.”
​Jeremiah 17:5-8 (NIV)
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About the Author

Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes. My husband John and I live in Omaha, NE. I get to be mom to three sons, one daughter and one daughter-in-law. I spent many years homeschooling our kids but have now worked myself out of that job. Now, I spend my time helping with my husband's IT business, writing, teaching about spiritual formation and being with our kids in their current season. I love the outdoors, reading and being with people. I am passionate about following Jesus in the everyday and joining Him in what He is doing.
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7/2/2024 0 Comments

The Cultivated Heart

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One morning, I woke up exceptionally early determined to get some much needed time with God before our toddlers woke. Tiptoeing into the family room and keeping my knees straight to avoid the inevitable cracking that seemed to always wake the sleeping babies, I successfully made it to the sofa without a sound. I nestled into the sofa and my body froze when I heard a rustling and a door creak open. Once again, a sweet, groggy face appeared. It seemed if I got up early, the toddlers would too. If I got up earlier, they would too. Except on Sundays. On Sundays we had to wake them to get them to church on time. How could I learn to live life with God in the midst of a life of interruptions and the urgent that always seemed to crowd out the important?

Our kids are mostly grown now, but what God taught me in the little years will stay with me for a lifetime and changed the way I live my life. 
In Matthew 13:3-23, we find the parable of the farmer and the seed. The farmer sowed seed and some fell on the path, some on rocky soil, some among thorns and some on good soil. Only the seed that fell on good soil produced a harvest. If soil is not conducive to growth, even good seeds will not grow. Good soil is soft and ready to cultivate life. In this parable, the seed is the Word of God and the soil is our hearts. The soil of our hearts determines a lot about our lives. I always wrestled with this parable. What is good soil practically and how do I cultivate it? Is it doing the right things? Are certain lives or seasons more conducive to having good soil than others? Can good soil be cultivated even in chaotic seasons? I learned the condition of our heart’s soil is affected by where we turn our attention. Good, soft soil has everything to do with the orientation of our hearts.

Right in the middle of the ‘little years,’ where I often found it hard to find space for uninterrupted time with God and my ‘quiet times’ were often not all that quiet, I learned something profoundly beautiful: God is not just wanting to be with us in our set times with Him, but also with us in our lives as they are. 

No matter what moment we are in, we can learn to turn our attention towards Him. The more we begin to invite Him into the ordinary and mundane moments, the more we begin to notice Him around us. In the moments of overwhelm and fears, joys and triumphs, hopes and dreams, disappointments and loss, confusion and wondering, shame and failure, we will find God is listening. 

One way to develop deeper trust in God is to invite Him into the nooks and crannies of our days. Growing trust in God softens the hardened soil of our hearts. Soft soil is ready to receive from God, notice His movements and take Him at His Word. This trust gives us the confidence to actually do what He says, be vulnerable with Him and leads to true life change. God, who knows us fully and loves us deeply, has not left us on our own. As we learn to live our moments with Him, we will find a softness in our hearts growing and great harvest in our lives. Good, soft soil is something God cultivates in us as we learn to turn our attention towards Him in our ordinary lives no matter what season we are in.
“Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I entrust my life.” Psalm 143:8 (NIV)
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About the Author

​Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes. My husband John and I live in Omaha, NE. I get to be mom to three sons, one daughter and one daughter-in-law. I spent many years homeschooling our kids but have now worked myself out of that job. Now, I spend my time helping with my husband's IT business, writing, teaching about spiritual formation and being with our kids in their current season. I love the outdoors, reading and being with people. I am passionate about following Jesus in the everyday and joining Him in what He is doing.
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9/21/2023 0 Comments

Anchored Faith

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Struggling to make sense of my newly shaken faith, I looked at the once beautiful pieces of my known walk with God now strewn about like a debris field in my heart. I was dealing with the deep pain of what can happen when a church goes wrong. Holding my seemingly crumbling faith in my hands, I felt shards of disappointment and fear pierce my heart. While sorting through the broken pieces of what had been a strong and unquestioned faith, I found a treasure; a diamond hidden in the dust of what had been. When I found this little truth, I didn’t understand it would be the means through which a more deeply anchored faith would grow.

This diamond in the dust was Romans 10:11. As Scripture says, “Anyone who believes in him will never be put to shame.” Some translations use the word ‘disappointed’ instead of ‘put to shame.’ This verse became my lifeline and the road on which my deeper faith was built. I knew if I kept believing and trusting in God, I would not stay disappointed. He had promised and I believed Him. Faith is what is built in the ‘not-yets’ and in the places in life where what we know to be true about God doesn’t match our current circumstances, feelings or experience.  
Hebrews 11 will always remain a favorite chapter of mine and is known by many as the ‘faith chapter.’ The chapter is filled with examples of beautiful lives lived by faith. All of them lived in the tension of the ‘not yets’ between the promise and the promise fulfilled. The chapter begins with Hebrews 11:1, “Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see” (emphasis mine).  Faith is standing in the space of the ‘not-yet’ and anchoring ourselves to who God says He is. Faith is the bridge we walk on when our experience does not yet match the promise, when we feel disappointment in God, when we feel we have been left alone, when we feel as if we are not forgiven, when we feel unloved by Him or any other way that is contrary to what is promised in Scripture. 

I love Hebrews 11:11, “And by faith even Sarah, who was past childbearing age, was enabled to bear children because she considered him faithful who had made the promise” (emphasis mine). Sarah considered God faithful despite what she could see. She didn’t have faith in faith or her ability to believe, but centered her faith on the faithful God. She considered Him faithful. This little statement is the foundation of true faith. This is the question we must answer in our lives if we are to live faith-filled. Do we consider Him faithful? If so, we can anchor our lives to Him even when things go dark. When questions are large, the God who knows all continues to hold our lives in his hands. We can be confident and sure of this even when we can’t see.

Our faith is anchored to the good God, who even when things turn out differently than we expect or hope for, is still good and has our best in mind. God is strong enough to anchor our faith to no matter what is going on in our lives. Let’s put our faith in the God who holds our lives and trust Him in whatever season or circumstance we may find ourselves in. He will be faithful.
"And by faith even Sarah, who was past childbearing age, was enabled to bear children because she considered him faithful who had made the promise.” Hebrews 11:11 (NIV)
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About the Author

Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes and I live in Omaha, NE. I've lived here most of my life except for a few years in Florida where I attended Bible school and started married life with my husband, John. We moved back to Omaha with our oldest two sons and had two more children shortly after. We have 3 sons and 1 daughter. I am passionate about motherhood and love the creative work of partnering with God to help our kids develop into who He designed them to be! I love to write, read, hiking and being outdoors. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us because when we see his heart for us, it changes everything! Connect with me at wendygerdes.com.
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9/21/2023 0 Comments

Let's Remember

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Gathered in a circle with the familiar group of women in my basement, some sitting on the floor and others curled up comfortably on sofas, we decided to open our time with the common conversation starter of ‘Highs and Lows.’ Everyone was to share a ‘high’ and a ‘low’ from the previous month. 

I had intended this to be a short five minute exercise, but what followed was a time of deep conversation where people shared their most vulnerable aches and joys. The five minutes became two hours as people shared their most hidden places. The aches turned into a time of praying for one another. 

The time together was so meaningful, we decided to repeat it again the next month. We saw God’s movements unfold before our eyes as some women’s greatest aches from the month before had become avenues for God’s greatest victories in their lives.  We saw God moving in real time. We walked away assured God is moving in all of our lives - even those of us whose aches from the month before were still aches. Taking time to be grateful encouraged all of us to look for God in our own circumstances. We all left feeling a little more held. Remembering matters. We see this clearly in the many stories about the Israelites in the Bible.
In Nehemiah 9, we find the Israelites were once again standing in repentance for forgetting God and turning their backs on him. They forgot the God who made the Heavens and Earth, the God who had seen their oppression and miraculously parted the Red Sea, the God who led them through the wilderness, the God who had gifted them the Sabbath, and the God who had provided water and food in the desert. They had seen His lovingkindness, care and miracles, but they forgot. The pain in their life was too loud. They only saw the desert, the tents, the danger and the utter dependence and helplessness that made up their day-to-day life. 

The truth is, we don’t like to live like that either. It only takes a struggle with finances, health, our family, relationships or anything else in our lives we cannot control to cause us to sometimes lose sight of God and who He is. Nehemiah 9:17a says, “They refused to listen and failed to remember the miracles you performed among them. They became stiff-necked and in their rebellion appointed a leader in order to return to their slavery in Egypt.” 

Gratefulness helps us to remember what God has done in the past and gives us the courage to lift our eyes above our circumstance and place them on the good God who holds our lives. This gives us hope for the future. When we don’t remember, we often come to the wrong conclusions about God and begin to hold him at arm’s length. Much like the Israelites, we become resistant to him. Forgetfulness leads to waywardness.

Even though the Israelites forgot and turned their back on God, they found He had never turned His back on them. Nehemiah 9:17b says, “But you are a forgiving God, gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, Therefore you did not desert them...” When we forget, we, too, will find God to be forgiving, gracious, compassionate, not angry and abounding with faithful love for us. Even in our forgetfulness, he never abandons us. Remembering leads to faithfulness. Let’s be ones who in the middle of hardship, begin to remember the good things God has done in all of our lives.
“Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.” 1 Chronicles 16:34 (NIV)
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About the Author

Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes and I live in Omaha, NE. I've lived here most of my life except for a few years in Florida where I attended Bible school and started married life with my husband, John. We moved back to Omaha with our oldest two sons and had two more children shortly after. We have 3 sons and 1 daughter. I am passionate about motherhood and love the creative work of partnering with God to help our kids develop into who He designed them to be! I love to write, read, hiking and being outdoors. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us because when we see his heart for us, it changes everything! Connect with me at wendygerdes.com.
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9/20/2023 0 Comments

Who I Want to Be

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Surrounded by hanging clothes and scattered shoes, we stood in our closet talking. The rows of clothing provide the needed buffer for our more private conversations.

​The night before, one of our children had been disrespectful when I had asked him to do something. In my mind, I had spoken firmly and was justified in my strong response, but my husband saw the situation differently. The truth is, our teen had hit a raw place in my heart and I had come out swinging with too many words.

What I did not want to do at the moment was admit my part and acknowledge that my husband was right. He continued, “I see and hear who you want to be and the relationship you want to build with the kids, but I’m just not sure those kinds of responses will result in what you are hoping for.” He was reminding me of my greater desire and it enabled me to see beyond the moment and admit my wrong. We can learn the importance of admitting wrong when we read the story of David and Abigail In I Samuel 25.
This story has always captured my imagination. In this story, David was angry. Very angry. He was going through a hard time. He had spent a long time on the run hiding from Saul and then his long-time trusted mentor, the Prophet Samuel, had just died. Low on supplies both internally and externally, he was in a vulnerable place.

​David sent men to ask Nabal, a rich man in Maon, for much needed supplies. They greeted Nabal with blessings and reminders of the kindness and protection David and his small army had provided Nabal’s servants. Nabal’s response was not one of grace but instead, was laced with insults. Nabal called David a nobody, insulted his family lineage and treated him with contempt. David, the one who had killed Goliath and the one who had chosen to not kill Saul when he had the chance, took this insult to heart and decided on revenge. Nabal’s response to David hit a raw place in him and he made up his mind to defend his honor. It was one too many blows and David was faltering.


At this crucial moment, in stepped Nabal’s wife, Abigail. After finding David, Abigail bowed low and offered him the gift of perspective. She reminded him he was a future king made to fight the Lord’s battles; he was held securely by God and he did not want to be someone who would have to carry the guilt of needless bloodshed. David accepted what she offered with humility and gratefulness.

I love to imagine myself as Abigail in this story, but oftentimes I am actually David. I am the one acting in a way that is contrary to who I want to be and need to be reminded of who I am in Christ. I may not kill with a sword, but I am pretty skilled with words. When an ‘Abigail’ steps into my life to confront the harmful ways I sometimes relate to others, I can learn from David’s response. Listening to correction takes humility and is not easy in the moment, but it leads to a more godly life. 

When reading this story, I am forced to ask myself if there are ways I protect myself at the expense of others and if I listen when others see in me what I cannot. Sometimes our Abigail comes in the form of a person and sometimes it is the still and small voice of the Holy Spirit, but it is always gentle mercy from God. The question for our lives is “Will we listen?”
“Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”  Psalm 139:23-24 (NIV)
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Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes and I live in Omaha, NE. I've lived here most of my life except for a few years in Florida where I attended Bible school and started married life with my husband, John. We moved back to Omaha with our oldest two sons and had two more children shortly after. We have 3 sons and 1 daughter. I am passionate about motherhood and love the creative work of partnering with God to help our kids develop into who He designed them to be! I love to write, read, hiking and being outdoors. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us because when we see his heart for us, it changes everything! Connect with me at wendygerdes.com.
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8/31/2022 0 Comments

Choosing Grief

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​Sitting in the coffee shop with my friend, the tears flowed. I sat in the chair in the corner of the small room clasping my hands tightly around my coffee cup trying to chase away the feeling of empty arms. The air hurt my lungs and the emptiness inside threatened to overtake me. Days felt like nightmares and sleep was relief because in my dreams, our little girl was still tucked safely inside. The recent memories of the silent delivery and holding her lifeless form in a tiny white dress haunted my waking moments. Grief was the air I breathed and I did not know if the air would ever clear again. 
 
And there she sat and kept sitting. My friend sat with me in my space of grief. She wasn’t afraid but allowed herself to feel my pain. Her tears flowed too, healing my heart one tear at a time. Her tears puddled with mine and the grief lifted a bit from me as she took some of it on herself.
I wasn’t alone, but I had a friend who was with me. She didn’t allow me to suffer alone. She didn’t stand outside my grief and talk to me from without, but came near enough to allow the rawness to touch her. She cried; she wondered; she listened and she sat. She was like a shadow on a sunny day. She kept showing up. She was fiercely persistent.

In our grief, we remember the ones who show up. Jesus shows us how to be one who does.
 
In John 11, there is a story I have always been fascinated by. Jesus’ good friend Lazarus died and friends and family were grief-stricken. The One who raised the dead had a close friend who died. No wonder Mary and Martha, Lazarus’s sisters, were perplexed. Surely Jesus could have prevented the heartache. Had He come earlier, there would have been no grief, no tears and no funeral. He could have just showed up, marched up to that closed up tomb and called Lazarus out, but that’s not what He did. First, He allowed grief to touch Him and then John 11:35 says, “Jesus wept“ (emphasis added). He chose to feel the grief. He took a moment to sit in their space and feel what they felt.  He felt the pain and allowed Himself to be moved by it. There is profound power when grief is shared by another. Entering another’s grief allows us to partner with God to bring healing to a hurting heart.
 
Jesus was the exact representation of who God is and the story of Lazarus reveals God’s heart towards us. God comes to us with compassion in our hard spaces. He doesn’t watch us from afar, but comes near. He is not distant, but sits with us in our difficult moments. He is not unfeeling or uncaring, but chooses to feel deeply when we are in pain. He is not a God who does not allow emotion to touch Him but voluntarily moves into those places with us. We can come to Him no matter what it is we are carrying and be sure of His tender compassion and care. We are never alone. He is with us. Sometimes He comes near us through another, just as my friend did for me.
 
We, too, can learn to be near others as Jesus was. We can choose to enter into other’s places of grief and offer our tears. Through shared tears, healing eventually comes. 
Memory Verse: “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.” 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
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Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes and I live in Omaha, NE. I've lived here most of my life except for a few years in Florida where I attended Bible school and started married life with my husband of 22 years, John. We moved back to Omaha with our oldest two sons and had two more children shortly after. We have 3 sons and 1 daughter ranging in age from 14 to 21. I am passionate about motherhood and love the creative work of partnering with God to help our kids develop into who He designed them to be! I love to write, read, hiking and being outdoors. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us because when we see his heart for us, it changes everything! Connect with me at wendygerdes.com.
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8/30/2022 0 Comments

Choosing to Remember

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​“Tell me about a time when you KNEW God answered a prayer you prayed,” I said to the class of bright-eyed 4th grade girls seated in front of me. One sweet girl raised her hand exuberantly and I quickly called on her. 
 
With a big smile on her face, she said, “Last week, my mom realized I had outgrown all of my clothes and we didn’t have any money for new ones. We prayed together and the next day, someone gave us two full bags of clothes! They fit both me and my sister perfectly!” A story of God’s faithfulness displayed. A monument in her little mind that the big God cares for her. If she ever feels uncared for, that story will be a bearer of truth to her heart. God cares. He’s good. He can be trusted. The day bags of needed clothes showed up, a little root grew that would anchor her. This story, when shared and remembered, ignites faith and reminds us of who God is. 
In Deuteronomy 11, remembering what God had done is directly linked to obedience. We will not obey a God we do not think we can trust. The chapter begins in verse 1 with Moses declaring that the Israelites are to love God and keep his statutes, ordinances, and commands. Next he reminds them in verses 2-7 that although they had seen firsthand God’s discipline, deliverance from Egypt, provision in the wilderness, and holiness displayed, their children had not. Their children needed the stories to build their faith in the holy and good God until they had stories of their own. In verse 19, Moses makes it clear they were to teach their children God’s commands daily and in ordinary moments: sitting at home, walking, at bedtime and in the morning. Their stories told to the next generation would pass on knowledge of God’s greatness, goodness and holiness. The commands were what they needed to do, but the stories revealed who they were obeying. Without remembering, their children would not know God’s heart or holiness and laws would become arbitrary and disconnected from a good God. Obedience requires trust in a good God. 
 
Faith travels through stories. Sharing our faith with the next generation not only means sharing beloved truths and Bible stories but also new stories. The stories where God shows up in our ordinary lives teach our children the faithfulness of God and encourage them to follow Him in their ordinary lives. Stories build faith and obedience rests on faith.
 
It is our forgetfulness of God that causes us to lose faith and eventually disobey. When we don’t remember who God is or what He has done, we begin to put more faith in ourselves or things around us than in Him. Tragically, eventually the Israelites forgot and turned from God. Forgetting is easy when remembering isn’t intentionally woven into the fabric of our lives. Stories preserved become a foundation for faith and obedience to be built upon.
 
As parents of God’s created, we are tasked with the responsibility of teaching Him to them in normal, everyday life. We are storytellers. They learn about Him in Bible stories and teaching His ways, but also through personal stories we tell. Not only do stories help our children to remember, but they help us and others who hear. We easily forget, but we can choose to remember. Let’s be ones who remember and tell the stories of God’s kind generosity and faithfulness to us. 
Memory Verse: “In the night, Lord, I remember your name, that I may keep your law.” Psalm 119:55
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Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes and I live in Omaha, NE. I've lived here most of my life except for a few years in Florida where I attended Bible school and started married life with my husband of 22 years, John. We moved back to Omaha with our oldest two sons and had two more children shortly after. We have 3 sons and 1 daughter ranging in age from 14 to 21. I am passionate about motherhood and love the creative work of partnering with God to help our kids develop into who He designed them to be! I love to write, read, hiking and being outdoors. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us because when we see his heart for us, it changes everything! Connect with me at wendygerdes.com
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7/17/2022 0 Comments

Perspective Changes Everything

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​Sitting on a big comfortable sofa in a large living room, I leaned forward listening to my brave friend’s story. A refugee, recently displaced because of a torrent of religious persecution, she was talking about her brief day in jail.

​As I, along with others in the room, voiced empathy, she smiled and replied matter of factly, “Oh no! Don’t be sorry! God needed me in jail that day because there were people there who needed to hear about Him!”
 
In a culture that can often be so self focused, this perspective was mind shifting for me. What if I began to see my life, both the good and the bad, as God moving me into the places where He wants me to bring His love and truth?
Since that day, I have heard so many stories. Perhaps, I had heard them before but not really heard them?
 
  • A cancer patient learning to look up in the midst of her own grief and truly see the other downtrodden and fearful faces in the waiting room.
  • A young widow whose husband had a tragic mountain fall, wading in her own grief but offering a hand of hope to others who are drowning - understanding what they are going through, but no longer overcome.
  • A young mother in the middle of her own exhausting years of raising littles, reaching out to another harried mom at the grocery store.
  • A woman determined to make her home the neighborhood family room by reaching out to one neighbor at a time, taking time to help and resisting the urge to keep to herself because it is easier.
 
So many stories.
 
I realized these women had a perspective not unlike Paul.
 
Paul, a hero to many, endured much during his lifetime but always seemed to respond in joy. It was almost as if he sailed above it all. In Acts 23, the secret to his joy becomes apparent. He was living according to God’s story.
 
Imprisoned for years and brought in front of many leaders, he shared his testimony over and over again and often to big crowds of influential people. A glimpse into how Paul saw his life can be found in Acts 23:11, ‘The following night the Lord stood near Paul and said, 'Take courage! As you have testified about me in Jerusalem, so you must also testify in Rome.'"
 
The truth was revealed! God was using Paul’s imprisonment to give him opportunities to testify and bring the Gospel where it would not have gone. Paul’s small story was difficult, inconvenient, hard and full of physical and emotional pain, but through the lens of the larger story he could see the eternal impact.
 
What if we began to see the hard circumstances in our lives as a place of opportunity? Maybe even the mundane moments we often find ourselves in actually have us strategically placed to display God’s love and hope to those around us. No matter what season of life we find ourselves, every day is an invitation to partner with God and what He is doing in the lives of those around us. We do not do this alone, because He has promised to be with us no matter what season we are in! May God give us the perspective to see our lives through His eyes.
 
Memory Verse: “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” Hebrews 12:1-2 NIV
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Hi! My name is Wendy Gerdes and I currently live in Omaha, NE. I was born and raised in here. Except for seven years living in Florida, I have lived in Omaha my entire life. My husband John and I have been married for 21 years and have three boys and one girl ranging in age from 13 to 20. I am passionate about motherhood and love the creative work of partnering with God to help our kids develop into who He designed them to be! In my free time, I love to write, read and see friends. Dates with my husband and time with family are other favorite pastimes. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us because when we see His heart for us, it truly changes everything! Connect with Wendy at www.wendygerdes.wordpress.com

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4/3/2022 0 Comments

Identity War

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Fingering my ruby necklace, I sighed silently. My outfit was a bit strange that day. Sweats, an old t-shirt, dirty hair and a ruby necklace symbolized the fight going on within my heart.
 
The morning began with me overwhelmed, angry and being anything but the kind of mom I wanted to be. In the middle of the downward spiral of tears, anger and ugly words, suddenly I remembered.
 
A few short months earlier, my husband had carefully picked out a beautiful ruby. He had taken great pains to find the perfect one and had given it to me along with a lengthy note. In that note, he wrote about the kind of wife and mother he saw me to be. It reminds me of who I am in Christ.
​I ran to get the ruby necklace and put it on. The little necklace helped me get my bearings and remember not only who I am but who I am created to be. It gave me the courage to go to God and ask for forgiveness. Simply remembering changed the course of the entire day. Knowing who we are changes how we live.
 
Even Jesus’ ministry started with God declaring Jesus’ identity.
In Matthew 3:16, immediately before beginning His ministry, Jesus approached John to be baptized. When Jesus came up out of the water, God the Father declared, “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well-pleased” (Matthew 3:17).
 
Immediately after God’s declaration, Matthew 4 tells us Jesus was led into the desert to be tempted. After forty days of fasting, the devil came to him and questioned Jesus’ identity saying, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread” (Matthew 4:3). That statement was an attempt to get Jesus to question His identity and then feel the need to prove who He was. Jesus was so firmly established in who He was, He felt no need to prove Himself. Instead Jesus replied in verse 4, “Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.” Bringing Jesus to the pinnacle of the temple, Satan once again tempted him to prove Himself in verse 6 saying, “If you are the Son of God... throw yourself down.” Jesus answered, “Do not put the Lord your God to the test” (Mt 4:7). He again did not succumb to the temptation to prove Himself because His identity was firmly established. The Father’s truth was stronger than the fleshly need.
 
That little necklace reminded me of who I am and helped me resist the temptation to act like who I am not. Whenever I get a bit testy, I have found I am often trying to protect a piece of my threatened identity, but when I remember who I am to God, that need dissipates.
 
You may not have a little necklace to remind you of what is true, but remembering who we are has the power to change us. We will act like who we believe we are. Because of Jesus’ death on the cross, through Him we are:
 
  • More than conquerors (Romans 8:37)
  • Dearly loved children (Ephesians 5:1-2; I John 3:1; John 1:12; Romans 8:14-15
  • A new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17)
  • God’s masterpiece created by Him (Ephesians 2:10)
  • Friends of God (John 15:15)
  • Chosen and holy (I Peter 2:9)
  • Beloved (Colossians 3:12)
  • Forgiven (Ephesians 1:7)
 
We do not need to prove who we are because God has already declared it. As His children, we get to live in the identity HE has given us.
Memory Verse: “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” I Peter 2:9 NIV
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Hi! My name is Wendy Gerdes and I currently live in Omaha, NE. I was born and raised in here. Except for seven years living in Florida, I have lived in Omaha my entire life. My husband John and I have been married for 21 years and have three boys and one girl ranging in age from 13 to 20. I am passionate about motherhood and love the creative work of partnering with God to help our kids develop into who He designed them to be! In my free time, I love to write, read and see friends. Dates with my husband and time with family are other favorite pastimes. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us because when we see His heart for us, it truly changes everything! Connect with Wendy at www.wendygerdes.wordpress.com

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10/17/2021 0 Comments

Never Enough

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​Sitting curled up in my chair one morning, Bible open and tears streaming, I felt an overwhelming sense that I did not have what it took to parent our three teens. I felt trapped in a place where my task felt immense and the importance of it overwhelmed me. Band-aids, popsicles and quick hugs didn’t solve teen sized problems. As I sat in my favorite space, I quietly whispered “I’m not enough.” He gently answered, “You are not enough and were never meant to be.”
 
In Exodus 3 and 4, Moses encountered a different problem but the same fear. Minding his own business in the desert, doing what he had done for years, Moses was stunned to suddenly see a bush burning.
When he approached, God spoke to Moses and told him He had chosen him to lead the Israelites out of Egypt. Moses was not exactly excited about the idea. He immediately was aware of his lack of qualifications and asked “Who am I?” in Exodus 3:11. He knew he did not have what it would take to lead thousands of people out of the grip of an evil Pharaoh and into freedom. He was not enough and he knew it, but God was not asking him to do it alone.
 
God did not answer Moses’ fear with assurances that he did indeed have what it would take to do the impossible task. He did not even tell Moses how amazing he was or that he was made for the moment. God’s plan did not rest on Moses’ ability to lead the mass exodus. His response in Exodus 3:12 was, “I will certainly be with you…” That’s enough, but Moses still was not convinced. In Exodus 4:10, Moses reminds God that speaking was not something he was good at. That didn’t deter God either. God reminded Moses in 4:11 that He was the One who had created Moses’ mouth, would give him the words to say and would teach him along the way. God is not concerned with our ability, but with our obedience. The question is not, ‘Who am I?’ but rather ‘Who is He?’
 
The loud voices in our culture bombard us with messages that we are enough, but the problem is, we know deep down we actually are not. We try hard and succeed in one thing only to fail at another. When I sat in my chair that early morning, relief flooded my mind as I realized ‘enough’ is an unattainable and an always moving goal.
 
Thankfully, God has never asked us to be enough. He has asked us to do life with Him instead. He IS enough and always will be. He has all we need in any situation we face. He readily gives wisdom to all who ask and loves to respond when we call. The truth is, we are not left to do life on our own but are invited into a life WITH Him. When we are at a loss, He never is. He is an endless supply of wisdom, grace and all we could ever need. He is the only one who truly knows every part of every situation. He knows the past, present and future. He has invited us to ask Him for wisdom when we don’t have it. We are not enough, and that is okay because He is.
Memory Verse: “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” James 1:5 NIV
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Hi! My name is Wendy Gerdes and I currently live in Omaha, NE. I was born and raised in here. Except for seven years living in Florida, I have lived in Omaha my entire life. My husband John and I have been married for 21 years and have three boys and one girl ranging in age from 13 to 20. I am passionate about motherhood and love the creative work of partnering with God to help our kids develop into who He designed them to be! In my free time, I love to write, read and see friends. Dates with my husband and time with family are other favorite pastimes. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us because when we see His heart for us, it truly changes everything! Connect with Wendy at www.wendygerdes.wordpress.com

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9/5/2021 0 Comments

The Final Chapter

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​As a child I loved to be read to. My mind was captivated by heroes and villains, rescues and trials, and the downtrodden turned strong. I loved the hope that assuredly always came in the last few pages where everything made sense and had a happy ending. Knowing the ending would be “happily ever after” made the story worth reading. It anchored my little heart through all the twists and turns it took to get to those final pages.
 
I have to admit, Revelation is not one of my favorite books to read. It is coarse, not easy to understand, and full of imagery that is not for the faint of heart. Not even theologians agree on much of it, but as we take a closer look there is something very beautiful unfolding in it all.
​The story of mankind laid out in God’s Word is much like the stories I loved to read. There is a Hero, a villain, and a people who need rescue. The story starts out beautifully, only to have something dark and sinister captivate the beloved. There is One who is stronger than the villain, ready to do what it takes to rescue. In this story, the weak become strong, the broken become whole, the sinful become righteous, and the shamed are healed. Sadness turns to joy, and despair turns to hope. Chaos is turned to order, and what is wrong is made right again.
 
Revelation is the final chapter when all things are complete and all is made new. The villain is conquered, the pain is relieved, the relationship is restored— there is happily ever after.
 
In Revelation 21:3-5a, the Apostle John shares his God-given vision. He says, “Then I heard a loud voice from the throne: ‘Look, God’s dwelling is with humanity, and he will live with them. They will be his peoples, and God himself will be with them and will be their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes. Death will be no more; grief, crying, and pain will be no more, because the previous things have passed away.’ Then the one seated on the throne said, ‘Look, I am making everything new.’”
 
Though we don’t live in Happily Ever After yet, this message is hope for us today. Because of Jesus, we are invited to know Him and live a life of intimacy with Him now, but in the future there is so much more promised for those who put their hope in Him. Knowing how the story ends anchors our hearts through the twists and turns of life. We can know whatever trial we are going through will not last forever.
 
Stories with tragic endings like untimely death and loss are not the final chapter. We may not like the chapter we’re in, but we can be sure of the ending because the last hope-filled chapter is promised. We will once again be with God and see Him as he truly is. We will be unhindered by sin and its effects and every ounce of grief, sadness and pain will no longer be ours.
 
Knowing the final chapter of God’s story, and the story of mankind makes life worth living. Today, let us lift our eyes above our present trouble, and fix our eyes on our promised Hope.
 
With our eyes on the future and the One Who holds it all, we can be courageous to face our day. The end of the story is not our small story, our pain or even our joys, but the end of our story and the story of us all is being with the One who created us all and loves with an intensity we cannot comprehend.
Memory Verse: “Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” Hebrews 12:2 (NIV)
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Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes and I live in Omaha, Nebraska with my family. John and I have been married for twenty years and we have three teens plus a twelve year old who keep us busy. I always say every stage is my favorite, but this stage really IS my favorite! On a quiet day, I can usually be found reading or writing. Hiking, traveling, and spending time with family and friends are also favorite pastimes. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us. When we begin to see his heart for us and towards us, it changes everything! Connect with Wendy at www.wendygerdes.wordpress.com

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7/4/2021 0 Comments

What Am I Beholding?

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​It’s human nature to be heavily influenced by what we pay attention to. Growing up in the 90s era, I understand this all too well. One early morning, my dad took me to breakfast for a very important talk. With worried eyes he cautiously voiced that he was afraid I was going to lose my long hair because of my daily ritual of aerosol hairspray and furious ratting.
 
He clearly did not understand this was necessary in order to achieve the much envied tall bangs that could be seen from behind. He was coming up against a force to be reckoned with because I had intently studied the upperclassmen, and the only conclusion I had come to was that I needed to figure out how to get my big bangs even bigger. As the story goes, he had to gut the bathroom after I left home because of the hairspray buildup. (That’s what half a can of Aquanet sprayed daily in a small bathroom does to a place.) My style was definitely more influenced by what I saw than common sense.
​As it turns out, God created us to be reflections of who we spend time with and what we turn our attention to. We were designed for intimacy with Him, and intended to reflect His goodness and grace.
 
I Corinthians 3:18 says, “And we all with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into His image with ever increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.”
 
According to the Merriam Webster Dictionary, to contemplate something means “to think carefully or deeply about something.”
 
The surest way to any transformation is the way we think. We can be transformed for the better or for the worse depending on who or what we contemplate.
 
How often do we contemplate...
The “what ifs” and worst-case scenarios and become filled with anxiety?
How we’ve been wronged and find ourselves bitter and filled with unforgiveness?
Everything our marriage is not and find our marriage degrading into further turmoil?
How we’ve messed up with our kids and fallen into further burdensome shame?
On what others have (or have not) in comparison to us and become envious or prideful?
 
The truth is, we become like who or what we behold. The surest way to become who God originally created us to be is to spend our time looking in the right direction. When we look to Him, our perspective begins to change to what is true. When we look at the wrong things, we begin to believe lies rather than truth (much like what happened with my hair situation.)
 
What if, instead of the negative, we began to contemplate…
God who is with us no matter what life holds for us?
God who loves us, defines who we are, and is the defender of our hearts?
God who fights with us for the good and restoration of relationships?
God who is our Forgiver and the Lifter of our heads?
God who is the One who loves to satisfy us with Himself and teaches us to walk in humility?
 
As Christ-followers, we should be becoming a little more like Jesus each day. Today, take special notice of what your mind is focusing on. Are they thoughts of comparison, shame, or pride? Or are they thoughts towards Jesus, His truth, His perfection, and His glory?
 
If we begin to find ourselves wandering towards old ways of thinking, let’s turn our focus back and contemplate the God Who is with us, fighting for us and bigger than any situation we could ever face.
 
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Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes and I live in Omaha, Nebraska with my family. John and I have been married for twenty years and we have three teens plus a twelve year old who keep us busy. I always say every stage is my favorite, but this stage really IS my favorite! On a quiet day, I can usually be found reading or writing. Hiking, traveling, and spending time with family and friends are also favorite pastimes. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us. When we begin to see his heart for us and towards us, it changes everything! Connect with Wendy at www.wendygerdes.wordpress.com

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4/18/2021 0 Comments

Your Kingdom Come

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Stepping into their home was like stepping into an oasis. I could feel my soul exhale as I was welcomed by our mentor friends. We were young and just starting out; they had two young girls ready to enter the teen years.
 
They greeted each arriving guest with the enthusiasm usually reserved for those of great importance. I remember thinking this place must be a bit of heaven on earth. That night, we experienced something rare: a safe space where God’s heart was revealed. God’s Kingdom in action.
 
I later found out their environment was no accident. The couple was intentional. Their goal: that others might experience Him. That night we not only found heroes of the faith— we also left with a life mission.
​I didn’t realize it then, but this mission can be summed up in one of the most familiar prayers of all time; a prayer that Jesus Himself invited us to pray. The “Lord’s Prayer” is spoken far and wide, but when we really dig in, we find there is enough power to change our lives in the first two verses alone.
 
“This, then, is how you should pray: ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name...’” 
 
This prayer is a beautiful invitation into a different kind of life than the common self-reliant life most of us live. ‘Hallowed’ is a bit of an ancient word, but a synonym for the word is the word ‘honored.’ When we honor His name, we honor all of who He is. He is Provider, Healer, Friend, Banner (Victory), Shepherd, Peace, Refuge, Present, Righteousness, Holy, Love, and so much more.
 
Can you imagine if we rehearsed who He is every single day in this prayer? I imagine our fears would be calmed, our trust would deepen, we would be inwardly at rest and our identity would become fixed in Him. Focusing on God shifts perspective, gives courage and promotes love. It changes who we are and in turn changes how we live. Looking at Him paves the way for the next verse.
 
“‘...your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.’”
 
When we pray these words, we are asking for His Kingdom ways to infiltrate the earth. It can feel overwhelming to pray this until we realize His ‘Kingdom come’ is simply the result of individuals living differently. When we live with a “Your Kingdom come, your will be done” mentality, we begin to live our days on mission. We want HIS will to be done, not our own. This kind of heart changes our actions. We don’t get to choose other’s choices, but we always get to choose ours.
 
His ‘Kingdom come’ in our lives may look like…
 
Handling a temper tantrum with grace
Responding well when offended
Staying up late speaking life to a hurting friend
Welcoming others into our home with open arms
 
How many of the most important moments of Jesus’ ministry were, at the time, seemingly small and inconsequential? What if ‘His Kingdom come’ isn’t always a splashy moment in time, but a display of His grace, love and kindness in our hard world? What if like our friend’s home, our homes become a refuge, a sanctuary of sorts where His Kingdom ways are operating more and more?
 
What if we lived like that wherever we find ourselves? Never perfect, but always growing.
 
Father, who is above and over all, honored be your name. May YOUR kingdom come, YOUR will be done, in our lives and in our homes as it is in Heaven today.
Memory Verse: “This, then, is how you should pray: ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven." Matthew 6:9-10, NIV
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Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes and I live in Omaha, Nebraska with my family. John and I have been married for twenty years and we have three teens plus a twelve year old who keep us busy. I always say every stage is my favorite, but this stage really IS my favorite! On a quiet day, I can usually be found reading or writing. Hiking, traveling, and spending time with family and friends are also favorite pastimes. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us. When we begin to see his heart for us and towards us, it changes everything!

Connect with Wendy at her blog at www.wendygerdes.wordpress.com

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11/1/2020 0 Comments

No-Sticker Days

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​Growing up, I was a sticker on a chart sort of girl. Little rows of boxes filled with shiny stars marking perfect attendance, good behavior, and recited verses motivated me to continue.
 
When I entered motherhood, mental charts replaced physical ones:
 
Patience today? Sorry, no sticker!
 
Kindness? There were a couple moments...
 
Peace? If you count laying down in the middle of the chaos imagining myself at the beach, then I guess yes.
Clean house?
Time for husband?
Time for friends?
Time for other important things?
 
I had a spiritual chart too. Enough Bible study, prayer, serving? I was never quite sure. Every night I bemoaned the missing stickers on my chart, and I was sure God was disappointed too. 
 
The problem was, I was trying to work my way to God instead of living from what Jesus had already done. Instead of living my life IN Him, I was trying to live my life to get TO Him. Those two ways of living are worlds apart.
 
As we read in Exodus, the Israelites frequently found themselves in the same predicament. They witnessed God part the Red Sea, then lead them as a shading cloud by day and pillar of fire by night. He provided manna for them to eat, and even made water pour out of a rock. God had been tender towards them, telling Moses to remind them in Exodus 19:4 that He had carried them on eagle’s wings and brought them to Himself.  His purpose in delivering them was for them to be with Him. This always was and still is God’s heart. He has always wanted to do life with us, since the Garden of Eden.
 
In Exodus 20:1-17 God gives Moses the Ten Commandments. These laws were an invitation to live a different kind of life— a life of wholeness and holiness. A life in good relationship with both people and God… and isn’t that what we all truly want?
 
Two times the Israelites declare, with all the gusto of good intention, “We will do everything the Lord has said!” However, the people found themselves in a place of wanting to do the right thing, but continually failing. They constantly teetered between faithfulness and faithlessness, leading to more sin and frustration.
 
Their good intentions weren’t enough. (They never are!) The Israelites desperately needed something else— a Savior.
 
Jesus came to fulfill what we could not. Because of Jesus, we no longer just do the right things outwardly, but become the right kind of people. Perfection is no longer required because He is perfect.
 
In Hebrews 4:14-16, we are told Jesus is our great high priest who sympathizes with our every weakness. We are invited to come to His throne of grace where we will find kindness, forgiveness, hope and mercy. We don’t have to wait for the right time, the right place, the right person or the right ceremony. He is near us, beside us and walking with us no matter what our day looks like.
 
Living from what He’s already accomplished, we can come to Him readily, even on no-sticker days, knowing He loves us and always wants us close to Him.

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Hi! I'm Wendy Gerdes and I live in Omaha, Nebraska with my family. John and I have been married for twenty years and we have three teens plus a twelve year old who keep us busy. I always say every stage is my favorite, but this stage really IS my favorite! On a quiet day, I can usually be found reading or writing. Hiking, traveling, and spending time with family and friends are also favorite pastimes. I am most passionate about learning and writing about God's heart for us. When we begin to see his heart for us and towards us, it changes everything!

​Visit her blog at www.wendygerdes.wordpress.com
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